চাকা থমকেগেল

আমি স্পষ্টভাবে remember: Manhattan-এর apartment-এ, midnight,বৃষ্টি window-এ tap करছিল। screen-টা 1BET-এ baccarat table-এর rhythmic pulse-দিয়े glow-korechil—ডিজিটাল carnival. One more round. Just one more.

কিন্তু This time… I didn’t press ‘spin.’ The wheel had spun twenty-three times without a win. My coins were gone—like whispers into silence.

And yet… I felt lighter.

Win & Loss - beyond

We’re taught to chase wins—to measure value by payout ratios and return rates. But what if we’ve been measuring wrong?

In psychology, there’s something called self-determination theory—the idea that true fulfillment comes not from external rewards, but from autonomy, competence, and connection.

That night, I wasn’t chasing money. I was chasing presence.

When you stop playing to win—and instead play to feel—you enter a different kind of game.